Many seniors try to remain as independent for as long as they can. Unfortunately, it is events such as death of a loved one or pet, an injury due to a fall, or even forgetfulness, that will initiate the need to ask for help. Ideally, our elders will ask for help during these times, but some may not. In some cases, one aging partner may assist the other partner, or the other partner might decline assistance because he or she feels ashamed or powerless. So when is the right to suggest some assistance around the house throughout the day?

Learning to recognize certain signs can assist in helping evaluate your loved one’s needs. For many, certain patterns of neglect can be signs that assistance is needed.

Look for patterns in...

Basic Tasks: difficulty dressing, talking, eating, walking, or managing medications

Cognitive Functions: confusion, using repetitive words or phrases, forgetting to turn off the stove, lock doors, getting lost while walking or driving, loss of sense of time

Hygiene: foul body/mouth odor, infrequency in bathing, sloppy appearance

Health: weight loss, insomnia, changes in appetite, fatigue, bruising (indications of frequent falling), incontinence

Change in Attitude: lack of interest with family and friends relationships, activities, or hobbies, talk of being depressed, feelings of despair, alcohol or drug abuse, paranoia, refusal to communicate, unusual argumentativeness

If some of these patterns are more present with your loved one, it may be time to have a conversation about getting some assistance. Helping your loved one understand and allowing them to identify the problem can lead to coming up with a solution to help them with their needs. Always ensure that your loved one feels as if they are the ones to make the decision of getting help. This can help the transition as well.

For more help understanding if assistance is needed, call us today!